How Male Insecurity Causes Relationships To Fail

When you strutting down the street with your gorgeous girlfriend, you see the other guys checking her out. You figure they’re wondering what a hot babe like her sees in a chump like you. Maybe you think she’s checking the other guys out because you just aren’t good enough for her.

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When your girlfriend isn’t with you you wonder about what she’s doing and who she’s with. You neglect your own friends and monopolize her time. If she isn’t standing next to her you call her and you get angry if she doesn’t answer right away. You check up on her, spy on her, smother her. When your behavior annoys her you think she’s got another guy. If she talks to the clerk at the convenience store, you think she’s cheating on you. You blame all the problems in your relationship on her.

Instead of recognizing that your problems are caused by your own insecurity, you blame her for everything that’s wrong in your life. You try to control her, and when you can’t, you lash out at her. You give her gifts thinking maybe she’ll stay if you give her enough things. You monopolize her time and don’t let her see her friends and family. Everyone thinks you’re nuts and she should get away from you. Think about this, i f she treated you the way that you treat her would you want to stay?

Your problems aren’t with your girlfriend. You are the one whose behavior is out of line. You are so worried about losing her, you’re driving her away. Stop worrying about what she is doing, and start making some changes for yourself. Become the man that she deserves.

Some men are self conscious about the size of their penis. That really doesn’t have to be an issue. Men worry about size a lot more than women do. If you are considerate and respectful with women when you make love, it makes you a bette r lover in their eyes than a big penis would.

Many men worry that they don’t have enough money to keep a woman happy. Relationships aren’t about how much money you have., they are about who you are. Stop worrying about spending a lot of money on your girlfriend. I money is a deciding factor for her, she’s not go od enough for you.

If you want to be loved and esteemed, start by loving yourself. Treat your girlfriend with the same respect you want her to show for you. If your girlfriend doesn’t respect you, maybe you need, and deserve, a new girlfriend

When you feel confident in yourself it shows and it draws people to you. Let go of your insecurities and jealousy and you will be a better person and a better mate.

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