My Marriage Was Not Complete Until I Got My First Vibrator

It was only when I bought my first vibrator that I realize what had been missing in my marriage. This small thing helped make my marriage complete – it is amazing what an orgasm or two can do, and how much female toys help.

Modern marriages are not about wifely duties and not enjoying sexual contact. These are marriages of the mind, body and soul. Complete participation in a marriage partnership means that a couple must be able to fulfill each other completely and part of the deal is sex. We are no longer living in the dark ages as far as sexuality is concerned.

Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.

I came across female toys completely by accident when a work colleague at another company sent me and invitation by email to an adult party plan party she was planning. Not having any idea what this was about, I agreed to attend.

I arrived to find the atmosphere in the room palpable, the ladies who were already there exuded excitement. When Beverley actually told me what all the excitement was about, I was a bit nervous, but she told me not to be, it was all in the sprit of good fun, so I relaxed.

She was right.

When the lady arrived and started unpacking all her goods, I have to admit I was fascinated. She gave a good and amusing talk and actually was very good at her job, explaining how her experience with female toys and potions saved her marriage. It was then I became concerned that my orgasm was definitely missing from my marriage.

My husband and I had spoken about it, but both being a bit ignorant about the importance of mutual fulfillment, had not really allowed it to bug us or pursue it any further.

She recommended that I purchase a bullet vibrator to start off with, reckoning that these items are the best way to introduce female toys into a relationship. She explained that they do not threaten the man as being a penis replacement and they certainly get the job done, so I ordered a powerful two bullet, waterproof unit and a big bottle of cherry motion lotion as well as a French maids outfit.

When I told my hubby about everything I had seen and heard at the Adult Party Plan party, as well as what I had ordered, he was as excited as me for the package to arrive. It did and we had a lot of fun experimenting with my new female toys. I am not going to go into detail, but I now have quite a collection of role play outfits, female toys and other stuff, and we now realize that sex is the way grown ups play.